What are the best self-help books for dealing with the demise of an emotionally abusive relationship?

I have a book called Emotional Blackmail. It's written by Susan Forward, Ph.D. It's about people who use manipulation and guilt to get you to do what they want you to. I also have one call Struggle For Intimacy written by Janet Geringer Woititz, Ed.D. Although technically its about people with alcoholic parents some of the advise and content of the book can be helpful to anyone. The last is a book called Anger: The Misunderstood Emotion, written by Carol Tavris. I found it helpful when I was going through a similar situation. I hope these help. Good luck