How do I quit drinking when my wife drinks too?

how do YOU quit drinking when your wife does? simple, you take control of yourself and you just, quit. just because she does it does not mean that you have to, or that you should. my hubby partakes in smoking a little weed every now and then, he likes it, and that's fine whatever, but i've tried it and don't like it, so, when he does it i can sit and be around him and not touch the stuff myself what so ever, and it doesn't bother me.. he is his own person and i am mine. i can't control what he does, and i shouldn't even attempt to try, but i can control myself and i do. a person who has himself together the way you say that you do with your life should have no problems what so ever with setting your mind to quitting, and succeeding in it. self control, and will power that's all it takes. good luck, oh, and Goob,, Gomer says "Hey!" lmao!!! cute name!! =)